MISCONCEPTION

We have a misconception that if a person is still single he or she is not happy..we associate being happy with having someone we can call as our girlfriends,boyfriends or even hubbies.Cant we be happy enjying life and ourselves? There are a lot of people now that are married or in a relationship but still theyaer not happy with their love life.Question is : why do we really go into a relationship??Is it for love? For companionship? For security? Are we afraid nobody will come along if we pass up to the chance we have? Are we incomplete if we are alone? Do we just live up to the quote no man is an island? Is alone synoymous to being lonely?I think the luckiest and happiest persons in teh world are those who are with the person they truly love. If we wait for the right person then we are waiting fro something grand..we should not settle for anything less. But the downside of this is if the right person for you doesnt think that you're the right person for them. That's a Major disaster jus waiting to happen. If you feel so strong for somebody you are willing to compromise your beliefs and remove your pride. You have the tendecy to give too much be degraded then eventually lose the value of your being. So with this realities can we say that true love is really worth the risk? Or should we just go on the safe side..not that ur unhappy but as i put it you are not ECSTATICALLY HAPPY..